With more than 20 years of experience in the relationship-enhancement business, Patty Brisben, CEO and Founder of Pure Romance, Inc., has been helping women put the "O" back into romance for more than 20 years. Patty has become a noted intimacy expert with appearances on CNN, VH1, and profiles in leading business publications Forbes and Entrepreneur. She is author of the book, Pure Romance Between the Sheets.
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Here, Patty tackles some of your most intimate, personal, and curious questions. Nothing is off limits. Go ahead — read, learn, and ask away!
Mismatched Libido
02/22/2010
Dear Patty,
I am 21 years old and my fiancé is 41 years old. Recently, he has not been very interested in sex and is having some issues getting an errection. I love him very much and want to help him and our sex life. Please help!
Sincerely,
Young and Frustrated
Dear Young and Frustrated,
Thank you for your email and great question. Many couples email us every day regarding mismatched libidos. In addition to age, there are many things that may affect a man’s desire and arousal, including stress, anxiety, certain medications, specific medical conditions, relationship issues, exercise, diet, and more.
Your partner may find it helpful to use an arousal cream, which can heighten sensations in the genitals. The arousal cream that I would most recommend for your partner is X-Scream; it is our maximum strength arousal cream and is great for men to use. The active ingredient in X-Scream is menthol, and it will provide a cool, tingly sensation to the genitals, helping to increase arousal. To use, your partner should apply a pea-sized amount to his penis (some men do not like it applied to their testicles, and some men may want it applied only to the most sensitive parts of their penis).
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Save My Skin!
02/22/2010
Dear Patty,
I was told you sell beauty products other then what’s on the site, like face wash and so on. I've heard great things about the products. Can you provide me with more information on the products and tell me where to find them on your website?
Sincerely,
Save My Skin
Dear Save My Skin,
Thank you for your email and interest in Pure Romance’s beauty products. In addition to the products listed under the Beauty category on PureRomance.com, we also have the Pure Romance Daily Facial Care Set which can be found under the Bath category.
A great skin regiment is so important, which is why I was thrilled to recently incorporate these products into our line. I had actually been using the products from this set for several years prior to bringing it on as part of the Pure Romance line. Throughout my travels, I’ve had the pleasure of visiting some of the most renowned spas in the world and time after time the estheticians would refrain from recommending the facials! They would tell me that whatever product I was using I needed to continue doing so. I also discovered that this same exact facial set was being sold in many of these upper-echelon spas for upwards of $350 and $400. Pure Romance is about offering high...
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