Step by Step Guide on Using a Cock Ring

So you’ve decided to dive into the world of cock rings? Welcome! These rings – sometimes called c-rings, penis rings, pleasure rings, or constriction rings – are a great way to add an extra dimension of pleasure into the bedroom.

While it’s understandable for those with penises to feel a little apprehensive, overwhelmed, or even inadequate when it comes to sliding a tight ring around their member, be assured that these pleasure tools are both safe and fun. Cock rings can help maintain or enhance erections, delay orgasm, and some even include vibration for that little extra oomph in your nightly sessions.

So whether you’re a first-timer looking for tips, or you’re an experienced ring bearer who needs a refresher, here’s your step-by-step guide to cock rings!

A Note on Safety

Just like anything you put in or on your body, there are things about safety you have to know. So let’s talk safety:

1. Use plenty of lubricant – This will add to comfort.
2. Use for no more than 30 minutes – Cock rings slow circulation (that’s how they keep you hard). Best to keep your sessions on the shorter side, with at least an hour between uses.
3. Don’t use when in an altered state – this falls into that “don’t be stupid” category. Drugs, alcohol, or anything else that might make you fall asleep shouldn’t mix with cock rings (see #2)
4. Pressure vs. pain– Cock rings should be a little tight – we call it a “pleasing squeeze” or “pleasurable pressure” – but they should never hurt. If your penis is in pain, your ring is too small. Stop using it immediately, upgrade to something bigger, and feel free to brag about it in your friends’ text thread or Discord chat.
5. Watch for other problems – Beyond pain, if you have any numbness, a cold sensation, any discomfort, swelling, or discoloration down there, remove the ring immediately.
6. Check the warnings – If you have any conditions that affect the penis – decreased sensation, Peyronie’s disease, priapism, or difficulty urinating – it’s best to consult your doctor before using a cock ring.

Using a Cock Ring

As you might guess, using a cock ring isn’t as simple as just slipping it on and going to town. To make sure everyone has a good time (and avoids injury), there’s a simple step-by-step process you should go through whenever you’re adding a cock ring into the mix.

 

1. Lube It Up

   – This first step may be the most crucial – liberally lubricate the ring and/or your penis. Lubricant not only makes the ring easier to put on, but also makes sure that it’s comfortable. It may sound counterintuitive to add lubricant to something you want to stay in place, but the tightness of the ring should keep it where you want it. The lubricant is there to reduce any friction between the ring and your skin.
   

As for the kind of lubricant, any will work, but we recommend a creamy lubricant like Whipped. This thick, lotion-like lubricant provides the perfect combination of comfort and glide when using a cock ring.

 

2. Slide It On – With everything lubricated, slide the ring onto your penis, all the way down to its base. It’s generally easiest to put on a cock ring while your penis is flaccid or partially erect, but depending on the ring, you may have no trouble putting it on while fully erect. Remember: pain is bad. If the ring is painful, remove it immediately. Our goal here is to slow blood flow – not stop it.

 

3. Position The Ring – While some cock rings are just basic loops of silicone, many come with internal motors for vibration, clitoral teasers for partners, or even anal and perineum teasers for the wearer. You’ll want to slide and rotate the ring to get any of these additional features into the right place before engaging in sex.

If your cock ring is the dual-ring kind, the second, larger ring is most likely made to be stretched around the testicles for a little extra pressure. Carefully stretch the (lubed!) outer ring around your testicles and ensure it’s comfortable before proceeding.

4. Experiment and Explore – If your cock ring has any of these fun additional features, your usual go-to positions might not take the most advantage of them. Explore different ways to do the deed in order to find positions that provide the most pleasure to both you and your partner. For example: If your cock ring has a vibrating clitoral teaser, having your bodies bouncing back and forth off each other in doggie style isn’t likely to give your partner those consistent vibrations they’re looking for. Adapt! Cowgirl, lotus, and other positions that create consistent pubic contact are the best for these kind of rings, as your partner’s weight can be pressed up against those precious vibes.
   Consider the features of your particular ring and experiment with the best ways to utilize those features for everyone’s benefit.

5. Finishing Up – Done? Everyone satisfied? Well, don’t lay around in post-coital bliss just yet. Promptly (and gently) remove the ring. Wash it with a mild soap and water (we recommend our Cleansing Mist for all your toys), and pat it dry, then store it in a cool dry place for next time.

Some of Our Faves

Now that we’ve gone over how to use a cock ring, which should you choose? There are many varieties to choose from, from the basic to the complex, all with a manner of motors, teasers, ticklers, and even remote controls. Here are three of our favorites.

Perfect Match

 

If you’re looking for a starter ring, you may have just found your Perfect Match. This simple yet effective vibrating cock ring has a stretchy silicone ring that’s perfectly sized to be comfortable for the majority of penises and the vibrating motor features three speeds and seven patterns that will add a little pleasure for both partners. It’s rechargeable and waterproof, so you can add a little extra fun to your next bath or shower.

Close Encounter

Ready for an out-of-this-world experience? Close Encounter features a thin and stretchy silicone ring and an angled vibrating teaser with a textured fin. It also features an optional remote control so you can change up its three speeds and six vibrating patterns on the fly.

While most cock rings have a simple, flat vibrating surface, Close Encounter’s angled teaser leans towards the clitoris to provide more direct stimulation, allowing for a range of additional positions you can explore. Both the remote and ring are rechargeable, but only the ring is waterproof, so play with care!

Double Feature

Looking for the perfect midnight showing? Look no further than this unforgettable Double Feature. This dual cock ring features twin rings – one for the penis and one for the testicles. The inner ring of Double Feature is super stretchy, but has a tighter fit than most. The outer ring provides that extra pleasurable pressure to the testicles for those that are looking for a little more.

Double Feature is rechargeable and waterproof, so it’s always ready to go no matter the situation. And its three speeds and seven patterns of powerful vibration will enhance any intimate encounter.

Treat For Two

This next ring is for the vibe lovers out there. Treat For Two may look like any other cock ring with its stretchy ring and sleek look, but it houses a powerful motor that will make it stand out from the crowd. With ten combined speeds and patterns, Treat For Two’s intense vibrations will leave you weak at the knees and begging for more.

It’s magnetically rechargeable and water resistant – so while it might be great in the shower, it’s best to avoid the bath.

Treat For Two is definitely one worth sharing.

The Perfect Couples Toy

There you have it – your step-by-step guide to cock rings. There’s no reason to be trepidatious when it comes to bringing a ring into the bedroom. Just like vibrators, cock rings can add a new dimension to sex and new pleasures you didn’t even know were possible. 

So if you’re looking to up your game, you know what they say: Put a ring on it.