Ready to bring a sex toy into the mix? Read on for tips on how to introduce a sex toy into your relationship.

So you’re thinking of spicing up your sex life by introducing a sex toy to the bedroom, but you’re not sure how to make it happen? That’s why we’re here! Read on for tips on turning your bedroom into a buzzworthy playland.

Talk the talk before you bring the buzz.

Communication is an essential part of any relationship, and this subject is no exception. Before you pull out a vibrator from your secret stash under the bed, you want to make your partner aware of your desires. If it seems too intimidating to do this during a normal conversation, try making it part of your pillow talk! Start with, “I think it would be so hot to …” We’re sure you’ll find an appropriate end to that sentence.

Shop together—and we don’t mean for groceries.

If you’re going to use a vibrator with your partner, it only makes sense to pick one out together! This ensures your new bedroom accessory is something both of you like. It can also be another low-pressure way to introduce the subject; simply browse the sex toys that Pure Romance offers and see if anything catches you and your partner’s eyes.

For once, bigger isn’t better.

Especially if this is your first time using sex toys together, it’s a good idea to start small with a clitoral vibrator or a smaller vaginal vibrator. These toys can be used externally during penetration, so both partners can feel some good vibrations! Better yet, try a c-ring with a removable bullet vibrator for two toys in one!

Turn a sweet massage into a spicy session.

To introduce vibration into your relationship, start by using your vibrator as part of a sensual massage. The pulsations will help soothe tired muscles and send you to a state of blissful relaxation. Once the vibrator becomes a regular part of your foreplay, try moving it … lower.

Talk through it.

We know, we know – sometimes, a lot of chatter can kill the mood. But when using a vibrator together, make sure you’re both communicating throughout, especially when you’re first starting out. A simple “Is this good for you?” or “Do you like when I …” can go a long way toward making your experience truly mind-blowing!

They say three’s a crowd…but clearly, we disagree. All you need is good communication and an open mind – and after the fun experimentation, you and your partner will enjoy this new addition to the bedroom!

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