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Curvy Girl Sex Toys

Sex toys aren’t one size fits all. There are a lot of factors – size, length/reach, curvature, and other design elements – that make them great (or not so great) for fluffy folks. So, your resident curvy girl is here to help with tips on what to look for, what to avoid, and more when it comes to plus size bodies and pleasure.

Notes: For the purpose of this article, we’re noting tips and my top 3 Pure Romance picks for curvy girls. If you’re completely brand new to toys, consider popping over to our toy types blog here. “Girl(s)”, “we” or “us” as well as “you”, “your”, or “yours” etc. nods to the writer, individuals, and/or the reader as vulva-owning people while “your partner”, “them”, or “their” nods to a sexual partner performing penetration with a penis and/or sex toy.

Things to Look For

  • 100% Silicone Materials. This isn’t specific to plus size bodies but always a must-mention, in my opinion. Quality, 100% silicone materials for every area of a toy that touches your body is best. For more about our silicone, check out the blog.
  • Rechargeable (or Plug-In) Power. I highlight rechargeable and/or plug-in toys for curvy girls because of time. If you’re experimenting with reach or poses or anything potentially challenging, you don’t want that to be the time you find out you’re completely out of batteries. Trust.
  • Remotes. Jumping off the prior note, remotes are your friends for similar reasons. Panty vibes, insertables, wearables etc. are sometimes on the smaller side and trickier to hold in place – so don’t! Shop toys with remotes! That way, you can position your vibe where you want and go hands-free.
  • Flexibility! I’ll argue this is especially important with curved clitoral toys but it’s a factor to consider with all toys. Depending on your body shape and/or where you’ve got extra fluff, you may want a toy that’s more flexible to make sure you can get it nestled close to your favorite spots.
  • Shape & Style. The world of sex toys is home to an unimaginable number of shapes and sizes. Think length, curves, handles/bases etc. Wands with vibrating heads, metal G-spot wands, and other longer toys are great for more reach. Toys with dramatic curves might be what you want for simultaneous internal and external vibes. Handles, rings, and more can help with reach and positioning; if the toy doesn’t have a handle, does it have a base or other design element that can stand-in? Get creative!

 

Our Top 5 Sex Toys for Curvy Girls
Without further ado, here’s our picks for curve-conscious toys! Whether you’re shopping for something for solo play, exploring options to use with your partner, or both, read on for 5 of our sexiest offerings.

 

If you want a little extra reach…

Twilight Mood

Overwhelming you with breathtaking vibration from the inside out, Twilight Mood bends to your every seductive whim with 10 vibrating speeds and pulsing patterns. Keep this flexible wand vibrator to yourself for clitoral massage or use with a partner for twice the satisfaction.

 

If you want a c-ring…

Vitamin Sea

Let me clue you in on why Vitamin Sea’s our pick here: size. The vibrating area is roughly 2 in./5.5 cm across and 2.75 in./7 cm. tall which means it has a much better chance of hitting the clitoris vs other much smaller c-rings. If you’ve ever used a vibrating c-ring with a partner and were disappointed, there’s a good chance the vibrating bullet or element’s placement just didn’t work for your body. So, shop this bestseller and, if we can make a position recommendation, try cowgirl position for the kind of shared pleasure that’ll make things wet and wild in no time.

 

If you loved the TikTok rose vibe…

The Adventurer Curve

If the TikTok rose vibe days taught us anything, it was the mind-melting pleasure that is air-pressure toys. And, while those pretty roses will always have a place in our hearts, The Adventurer Curve is almost sure to be your new go-to. It’s dual action with a signature, curved design that flexes to fit just about any size body!

Two-button controls let you customize playtime to your mood, by adjusting speeds and/or patterns for both the internal and external elements. Plus, the clitoral element also features a removeable sleeve so you can fit the soft silicone around your clitoris for oral-like, airotic sensation or remove it for thrumming action. All in all, it’s a no brainer addition to your collection.

 

If you want BDSM…

Come From Behind

This next one is what I call a plus-size superstar since the padding has ample surface area for tummies with a little extra fluff. If you’re still a little confused, think doggie-style with a twist. The padding goes against your stomach while the adjustable straps give your partner the power to pull your hips back towards theirs with as much force and speed as they want. So, if the name of your game is BDSM, this strap is what’s up.

 

If you want a rabbit vibe…

Blue My Mind

 

Give “feeling blue” a whole new meaning – with Blue My Mind. This dual-action vibrator is made from super soft, utterly irresistible silicone that you have to feel to believe. It features a curved shaped with twin ridges that massage the G-spot, while the clitoral stimulator tickles and teases. With 2 motors and 8 vibrating speeds and functions, this toy is going to bl – well, you know.

Silky Soft and Satisfying

Our ultra-soft toys have more than twice the amount of silicone vs. traditional toys. This exclusive design provides an incredibly soft, plush feel that’s inviting to the touch and spreads rumbly vibrations through your hotspots like nothing else. Forget dated, multi-layer traditional toys that feel tool-like and break down over time. This velvety collection excites and delights with a sensual, thick layer of quality silicone encasing powerful motors – so you don’t have to compromise on pleasure.

Thanks for joining us on this pleasure cruise through tips and picks for curve-friendly sex toys. When shopping for a massager as a plus-size babe, remember to keep shape, style, flexibility, power type, etc. and any factor you consider a make or break! Our top 5 picks hopefully helped you find a new favorite, whether it’s for self-care, a shared experience, or something in between.

Embracing your body and its needs is an act of self-love, so treat yourself well, and let the good vibes roll!

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