31 Flavors of Spring Sexuality

You’ve heard of the 31 ice cream flavors, but these Romance month tips and ideas will really make you melt.

Spring is beginning, kids are getting out of school, and we’re ready for the warm weather. You might be thinking that there’s just no time to focus on spicing up your relationship right now, but we think quite the opposite. Studies have shown that getting intimate might just be exactly what you need to boost your mood, making now the perfect time to heat things up in the bedroom with 31 of our best sex tips and positions.

Try a New Sexual Positions

One of the easiest ways to add some excitement in the bedroom? Ditch missionary and try one of these new positions!

1. The Corkscrew
As you lay on your side, your partner straddles your thigh and enters from behind. You get to relax and enjoy the pleasurable tempo while they enjoy the view.

2. Face to Face
Have your partner sit on a chair or the end of the bed, and sit in their lap facing them. Play around with the rhythm and depth to find the perfect positioning as the two of you watch the fun.

3. Doggie Style
You’re on all fours and your partner kneels behind you. G-spot stimulation and deep penetration are easily accomplished with this position! Already a fave position? Spice it up with a clitoral gel.

4. Spooning
With the two of you laying on your sides (your back to their front), let them enter from behind. The best part? Free hands can roam and tease hotspots.

5. Face Down
Lay face down with your legs together and keep them straight to allow for a tight fit. Already a fave position? Try activating pelvic floor muscles (think Kegels) for added stimulation both you and your partner will enjoy!

6. G-force
Make more of missionary by inviting your partner to hook your legs over their arms or shoulders so they can target the G-spot. 

7. Wheelbarrow
Enjoy some deep pleasurable penetration by getting on all fours (like you do in doggie style). Then, your partner picks you up by the pelvis and gets moving!

8. Rear Entry Standing
You both stand while your partner enters as you bend at the waist. Partner’s hands can give your breasts or clitoris ample attention. 

9. Cowgirl
You probably know this one already! It’s kneeling over or straddling your partner. Being on top allows you to brace hands on their chest (if needed) and to set the pace yourself. 

10. Upstanding Citizen
Start in the face to face position on the bed or chair. Wrap legs around your partner’s waist as they lift you up. For more stability and to make it even sexier, have your partner lean your back up against the wall!

Reinvention

Spice up stale sex with new sensations, vibrations and more!

11. Outercourse
Tease, touch, and tantalize your partner with your tongue, hands, and more. Adding a vibe to the sensual pleasures of outercourse will skyrocket your sexual excitement. Go on a journey of sexual exploration.

12. 69
We’d be remiss if we didn’t include this classic favorite. Simultaneous mind-blowing oral pleasure for both participants! Make it more comfy by laying on your sides.

13. Vibrator
Try a new vibrator or use a favorite on a new body part. Many vibrators are versatile enough in shape and size to be used on a number of erroneous zones, so get creative! 

14. Costumes
Roleplaying in fun or kinky costumes can add mystery and excitement in the bedroom. You and your partner get to be whoever you like!

15. Lubricants
Lubricants can enhance a sexual experience and make it from good to mind blowing. Not only can you experiment with new flavors and sensations, lubricant will make sex feel better for you and your partner!

16. Enhancing Gels
Rub some mood-boosting creams or gels on your erogenous zones. Whether it’s the clitoris, G-spot, breasts, or penis, the increased tingling and sensations will heighten sexual sensations. 

17. C-rings
C-rings prevent blood flow from leaving the penis and make erections firmer and potentially longer lasting. Try a vibrating c-ring that can also directly stimulate the clitoris for double the fun! Need a step-by-step guide to c-rings? We’ve got you covered.

18. Pleasurable Pegging
Try a wearable, strap-on dildo which can be worn by women or those without a penis to add penetration to the mix in a new way.

19. Edging
You take your partner (or let them take you) to the brink of orgasm, then abruptly stop. Repeating the sequence a few times almost always results in orgasms that feel not only more intense but more satisfying.

20. Hot Massage Session
A sensual warming massage with Heart Massager can be very erotic! Take turns rubbing and massaging one another and see where desire takes you.

Take a Walk on the Wild Side

Bring your fantasies to life and experience the unique intimacy that comes with it. Taking control or giving in, ecstasy awaits.

21. Sensual Shower Play
Make a splash in your sex life by getting busy in the shower, pool, or hot tub. Be sure to bring some silicone lubricant and a waterproof toy! Bathing together (vs showering) can be erotic too, so try a sensual bath bomb or warm lighting to set the mood.

22. Change It Up
Try getting intimate at a new time or in a new spot than usual. Cars and the outdoors are favorites! Remember, public sex might be especially hot, but take care not to get caught as there are different rules in different parts of the world when it comes to outdoor intimacy! 

23. Food Play
Incorporate some sensual flavors into your sexual repertoire. Lick some honey or whipped cream off your lover’s chest and enjoy the fireworks. Sound delish? Take a look at the dos and don’ts for food in the bedroom.

24. Private Film Festival
Cue up a couple porn picks that spark interest for both of you and make a night of it. Sharing a viewing experience allows both partners to not only be a little vulnerable but also explore turn-ons and fantasies that can rev things up long after your couple’s film fest. 

25. Bondage
Use bondage tape to restrain arms, legs, ankles or other body parts. Being dominant or submissive can be a novel turn on! Self-adhesive bondage tape won’t pull body hair so the focus will be on sexual pleasure.

26. Anal Sex
Being prepared with good hygiene and lots of silicone lubricant can make anal play a favorite for many couples. Even men enjoy penetration and/or when their prostates are massaged too! Consider adding a prostate massager into the mix if you’re already experienced with anal play.

27. Nipple Clamps
If you and your partner are into nipple play, trying out clamps just might be the thing! Nipple clamps worn by either partner can enhance any sexual experience and bring new levels of electricity to a relationship. Get the 411 here.

28. Get Cuffed
Handcuffs made from metal, silicone, or leather can add some much-needed excitement to any humdrum sexual interlude. Consider leather or metal if you like the idea of rough or hard material around your wrists, or if that sounds potentially distracting, stick with silicone or lined/padded leather.

29. Blindfolds
Experiment with blindfolds to enhance all other senses. Every touch, taste, and smell will seem that much more sensational. Even sounds will be more vivid, too! Don’t happen to have a blindfold handy? Try a scarf or tie in a pinch!

30. Impact Play
A little bit naughty or nice? Try a beginner paddle and start gently. Maybe add some light restraints to entice and enhance pleasure. There’s so much more to learn about the wonderful world of kink!

31. Fantasy
Everyone has sexual fantasies. Don’t be shy. Share your most intimate sexual desires with your partner and then explore…

The bottom line is – take time for romance this month! No matter which or how many “flavors” you dip into, you (and your partner) will be glad that you did.