The G-spot Spotlight: How To Have The Best Orgasm Ever

The G-spot. We’ve all heard of it, but not all of us have experienced the celebrated pleasure point for ourselves. In fact, there’s been debate for decades about if it even exists.

But we’re here to tell you: it does exist. It’s not a myth. And it’s not as hard to find as you might think! It just takes a bit of exploring (and after all, the best destinations usually do!)

So let’s talk about the G-spot – what it is, where to find it, and how to experience the fabled G-spot orgasm for yourself!

 

What is the G-spot?

Despite its name, the G-spot isn’t really a “spot,” it’s part of the entire clitoral complex. And that’s actually where we need to start.

When you think of the clitoris, you likely think about the small, sensitive nub that brings you so much joy. But the clitoris is like an iceberg – there’s so much more going on below the surface.

So, when you’re stimulating the G-spot, you’re actually stimulating an internal part of the clitoral complex.

Ok, but that’s not the question you really came here to have answered, so let’s just get to it.

 

Where is the G-spot?

The G-spot is located about 2–4 inches inside the vagina on the front wall (just down from your belly button). It’s easy to find when you insert two fingers into the vagina facing upward and make a “come here” motion.

The area is notable for having a slightly different texture (sometimes described as “spongy”) than the surrounding vaginal tissue.

 

Find What You Like

The best advice for starting to explore your G-spot? Start alone. While we all love a little sexual experimentation with our partners, exploring your body on your own helps remove any pressure to perform or respond in a certain way. It also gives you the time you need to figure out your body before having to explain it to your partner.

Think of it just like you would think about diving into sex toys for the first time: go at your own pace, don’t get discouraged if you don’t find what you like immediately, and keep trying – pleasure is always worth it.

As you begin your exploration, always start with plenty of lubrication – “the wetter the better,” as they say.

Next, insert your desired number of fingers and apply firm, but gentle pressure to that spongy area. Experiment with pressure and firmness – remember, all bodies are different. While you may enjoy a fluttering caress on your G-spot, someone else might like it a little rougher, and others still may need intense vibrations to send them over that edge.

And most importantly: relax. For many, the simple act of orgasming can already take a little concentration and relaxation. Trying to make yourself orgasm in a very particular (and unfamiliar) way might take a little more time.

One final thing to note as you’re entering the world of the G-spot: you may feel some pressure on your bladder as you work the spot. Don’t worry – you’re not about to have an accident. In fact, it’s a sign that you’re doing things just right.

 

Don’t Forget The Rest of Your Body

We all know the important role foreplay can play in satisfaction, and the same is true for the G-spot. Like other erogenous tissue (the penis, clitoris, and nipples), arousal increases blood flow to the G-spot, leading to swelling and increased sensitivity.

In fact, you’re more likely to have success with G-spot stimulation if you’ve already had an orgasm (or two) in the same session. After all, sometimes you just gotta warm the engine to really get it humming!

 

When You Just Need a Little More…

If you’re still having trouble finding it or just think a little extra “oomph” is what’s really gonna do the trick, there are sex toys specifically designed to help target the G-spot. These vibrators feature a curved and flexible shaft that helps anyone find their spot.

And what’s more, our specially-formulated GPS cream can help you find exactly where you want to go with an infusion of intimacy-boosting ginseng root extract, tingling spearmint leaf oil, and a triple blend of ingredients that help increase sensitivity.

 

Time to Bring in Your Partner

Once you’ve figured it out for yourself, it might be time to try it out with a partner.

The easiest way to introduce them to your G-spot is the exact same way you introduced yourself: with their fingers.

And as with all things sexual and relationship-oriented: communication is key. Direct them. Tell them how different movements feel, or if they need to go a certain direction, or if you want them to be gentler or go harder. The more open you are, the more likely you are to reach orgasm.

Once you’ve both gotten a better handle on your G-spot, if your partner has a penis or strap-on, you can experiment with different positions in order to stimulate the spot with said member. Here’s two positions to get your exploration started:

 

Crabwalk Rodeo

 

Change up cowgirl by having the receiving partner lean back, placing their arms behind them to support their weight. This position shifts the hips backwards providing a different angle of penetration than traditional cowgirl. Add in a little grinding motion, and you’ve got the recipe for G-spot stimulation.

 

Downward Doggie

Modify doggie style by having the receiving partner angle their upper body downward, towards the bed (or whatever surface the two of you are enjoying). This will cause their hips to also shift down in angle, allowing for not just deeper penetration, but their partner’s shaft to stimulate the G-spot as they slide in and out.

The more you know ;)

 

There’s Always More to Explore

Once you understand more about the G-spot, you can use your fingers, a toy, or get your partner’s help to stimulate both the G-spot and clitoris and work up to what many consider the ultimate pleasure – the blended orgasm.

But if you aren’t there yet, don’t be discouraged or give up. Exploring your body takes time and patience, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution to pleasure. If you can’t achieve a G-spot orgasm the first time, keep trying, take your time, and enjoy the process!

After all, when it comes to pleasure, the journey is often its own reward.